Thinking of going down a more non-traditional route for your wedding? You're not alone. "Hosting a dessert reception, cocktail party or wedding brunch is becoming a popular (and cost effective!) alternative to hosting a seated dinner style event," says Christiane Lehman, owner of Truly You Events. "The key to creating an enjoyable wedding experience that does not follow the traditional seated dinner format is to put yourself in your guests' shoes," Lehman continues. Below, she offers a few planning tips to ensure that your wedding is elegant and fun, regardless of what time of day — or night — it…